How to sweat the small stuff........

There is a book out called "Don't sweat the small stuff" and it will probably be added to the top of my reading queue, because it's about time that I start doing that. It's amazing how all these little things that happen, that you won't remember 5, 10, 20 years from now twist and turn, boiling in your stomach until finally they explode. The end result heat from embarrassment filling you all the way to your toes or just uncontrollable anger that can't seem to let things lie. It's that heat, and anger that you feel long after there is nothing left to do. There is a much more drastic affect of exaggerated anger, the affect you have on those around you. Blowing up and leaving a wake of unapologetic dumping is not a healthy way to have relationships.